5 Reasons Why You Should Date Mature Ladies
Most guys want to date younger women because they find them more innocent and, frankly, less intimidating.
But mature ladies, especially women in their 30s, should not be overlooked. While they may not be the right choice for a long-term relationship (if you're a younger person like me in my twenties), there are benefits to having ca
sual get-togethers and spending time with them.
As a 20-year-old, I have more experience than most when it comes to dating in my 30s. And for me, this experience was very positive.
It's funny because in college the idea of dating an older woman scared me. Damn, I'm scared to meet a woman my age.
I don't feel mature enough and to be honest I'm also quite insecure about my place in life and my own social intelligence.
But somewhere between the ages of 20 and 22, I went from being afraid of meeting women my own age to meeting attractive old ladies often.
In the next article, I will talk more about exactly how it happens and how you can date mature ladies.
But now I want to briefly explain why every man in his 20s should date at least one or two mature ladies. Because in my experience, he has been a great asset to my life and progress as a man.
And I'm not going to lie, I've always liked mature ladies. You always have an aura of mysticism around you. So it's been so much better having some amazing old ladies in my life over the last few years.
Here are 5 reasons why you should date an older woman:
1. She will call you for your nonsense
There may be A LOT of stupid things you do with women that you don't even realize. Right now I'm a pretty experienced person, but I keep having accidents.
And a lot of my nonsense was yelled by mature ladies. For example, an old lady once said to me, "I can see that you are a little nervous around me."
Actually, she was a bit scared, at least on a subconscious level. She is a very successful and very mature woman for her age. "Why did you say that?" I laugh.
"Your laugh," she laughed at herself. "I know it's a nervous laugh. I just want you to relax and be close to me." I know you are right.
I never realized that she had a "nervous laugh" until now. mature ladies will call it what they see, and you'll be better off about it.
2. You can learn from their experiences
Mature ladies also have more life experience. You've been through the ups and downs of the roller coaster you're experiencing right now.
She had to decide if she wanted to pursue her dream. It shaped his career path and everything combined.
In the busy life of a 20-year-old, it's nice to have someone around who has been there, done it, and can talk to you intimately about it. He's also great when you realize that he doesn't have any problems at your age either.
3. She is more considerate
Most men like the presence of a caring woman. After all, this is how most of us were raised, with a nursing mother by our side.
It may sound a bit strange, but mature ladies share some of the same parenting skills, and that's one of the reasons they're so attractive.
They will often not judge you as a much younger woman. On the other hand (as long as you are on her good side) they will accept you for you and genuinely care about you. It wasn't hard to feel very calm and comfortable in her presence.
4. She’s Not as Needy
Most of the time, mature ladies won't be waiting by their phone hoping to finally answer. They have their own lives and passions.
She has experience with men in the past and knows that a man will not change or destroy his life.
As a result, it's much more dramatic and generally much easier to hit.
5. There are Less Expectations
If you're under 25 and he's more than 6 years older than you, you probably both know this won't last long.
With the difference in maturity level and the general difference in current living conditions, it wasn't really worth it.
But that's really a great thing, because it's understandable. There's not a lot of pressure to build those great long-term relationships.
They are both there to have fun and can learn and enjoy each other's company. And just because you're more carefree doesn't mean you can't have a deep connection.